We live in a world where care, is the most precious gift that we can give. It is in the very nature of human beings, to care. Our parents imbue us with compassion as we grow up and as they age, we grow up and need to take the mantle of work, profession and other aspects of life that often leaves us with little time to take care of them.

That is where Home Care services step in and reassure us that our elders are well taken care of while we are away.

Caregivers and home care facilitators have often been surrounded by image tarnishing myths that make us uncomfortable even at the thought of it. So, today, let us analyze the top 4 myths surrounding them, and debunk them altogether, so that more people can look towards them in times of need.

Myth 1. Home Care is only for Sick and Elderly

It is true, that elderly and sick are two primary reasons for which people hire home care services. However, this does not implicate that the home care services are only meant for them. Caregiving services are for anyone who needs care, companionship and assistance in their daily tasks.

Good Caregivers, provide customized care plans for each client as per their requirements, which can include house sittings, grocery shopping, gardening, travel and appointment companion, pet care, as well as house cleaning.

Therefore, we can safely say that, one need not terminally ill or be way above 60, in order to avail home care services.

Myth 2. Home Care Services are Expensive

People often look the other way when it comes to home care services, because they have a misconception that the services are highly expensive. The fact is, home care services are more affordable than staying in an assisted living facility or a nursing home. In fact, the cost for home care services on an average, depend upon the number of hours for which you hire the services.

You can also avail customized packages depending on your need after receiving an expert assessment from the Caregiver agency

Myth 3. Choosing the right Caregiver is Difficult

If you’re new to the concept of home care services, it is understandable how it can get tedious to find a company you can trust and who can appropriately take care of your elders while you’re away. Usually, reputed Home Care agencies, perform a preliminary screening test for all personal assistants and caregivers before they hire them under their banner. These candidates who enroll to become caregivers, need to pass a strict background and national identity check to ensure they are up to the task.

Another way to verify the credibility of a home care service agency is to check out their testimonial page where reviews of previous client(s) are published. More number of positive reviews foretell the quality of that agency’s services.

Myth 4. Home Care Services provide Poor Quality service

This myth exists because of lack of people’s experience and how the industry dynamics have changed with time. Initially, when home care services were not as prevalent, many dubious agencies mushroomed in and around town that did not have the necessary skillset and wanted to make a quick buck out of ‘babysitting’ for the elderly.

Babysitting is not what caregiving is. Caregiving involves a lot more time, skill, patience and compassion which segregates this industry altogether from any other. Professional Caregivers are honorbound by work ethics and health care guidelines to provide quality services or else their licences can be impounded.

Today, dedicated Home Care service providers need to do their homework before sending an attendant to the client. The Caregivers serving under the agency are entitled to provide the best quality service to their clients or face an early termination which reflects poorly on their resume.

So the next time you’re thinking of Home Care services, make sure you do a good research and don’t take anyone’s word for it. You could be missing out on quality assistance that can help you and your elders in your daily lives.

Gail Schwartz, 78, helped her husband David, 85, out of his wheelchair at their home in Chevy Chase, Md., where she thinks he does better than he would at a nursing home.

Gail Schwartz wants to keep her 85-year-old husband out of a nursing home as long as she can, but it isn’t easy.

Because David Schwartz, a retired lawyer, has vascular dementia and can no longer stay alone in their home in Chevy Chase, Md., she tends to his needs from 1 p.m. to 11 p.m. every Monday through Saturday and all of Sunday.

When she dashes out for errands, exercise and volunteer work in the morning, she checks in by phone with the aides she has hired. “I’m always on alert,” she said. “At the grocery store, I’m thinking, ‘Is David O.K.?’ ”

An aide now stays overnight, too, because Mr. Schwartz awakened so frequently, disoriented and upset, that his wife began to suffer the ill effects of constantly disrupted sleep. She has moved into the bedroom across the hall.

“I need my rest,” she said. “I’m no spring chicken myself.”

Indeed, Gail Schwartz is 78. While she thinks her husband does better at home — “he’s getting 24-hour attention, and you don’t get that in a nursing home,” she said — friends point out that the arrangement is much harder on her. She worries, too, about costs climbing as Mr. Schwartz’s health declines and his needs increase.

For now, though, she manages, part of an apparently growing phenomenon: the old taking care of the old.

Every few years, the National Alliance for Caregiving and the AARP Public Policy Institute survey the state of American caregiving; their latest report, published last month, focused in part on caregivers over 75. They constitute 7 percent of those who provide unpaid care to a relative or friend, the survey found — more than three million seniors helping with the so-called activities of daily living (bathing, dressing, using a toilet), instrumental activities of daily living (shopping, transportation, dealing with the health care system) and a rising tide of medical and nursing tasks.

Almost half of them report caring for a spouse; the others assist siblings and other relatives, friends or neighbors, most also 75 or older. About 8 percent of these oldest caregivers still care for parents.

The aging of the population has thrust more seniors into this role, said Gail Hunt, president and chief executive of the National Alliance for Caregiving. “There didn’t use to be so many 95-year-olds,” she said, “and someone’s caring for those 95-year-olds.”

That’s challenging for anyone, though the extent of what’s called “caregiver burden” remains a subject of debate. For years, researchers have presented caregiving stress as a potential source of depression, compromised health, even premature death.

Some of those findings are being reassessed; a recent study in The Gerontologist, for instance, argues that the picture is “overly dire” and that several studies find benefits for caregivers — the “healthy caregiver” hypothesis.

(My own hypothesis: Both responses can be true, with caregiving providing purpose and activity in some situations but proving exhausting in others.)

People over 75, however, can find caregiving particularly taxing. They spend an average of 34 hours a week on caregiving tasks, the National Alliance for Caregiving report found, 10 hours more than caregivers over all, and they are less apt to have other unpaid help.

Because 46 percent take care of spouses, they are also more likely to be live-in caregivers, a known source of strain. “You’re responsible for their safety,” Ms. Hunt said. “You have to interact with the person all day long and maybe all night long, so your sleep is disturbed. It’s more stress than if you’re coming over periodically to help.”

The typical older caregiver in the study had been providing care for over five years.

“Just the physical part of it, the lifting and bathing and all of that, can hurt you,” said Donna Wagner, dean of the College of Health and Social Services at New Mexico State University and a longtime researcher on family caregiving. Older caregivers, typically women, have their own health issues.

“My mother is a perfect example,” Dr. Wagner said, describing her as a 4-foot-10 woman who cared for her husband, an obese man with heart disease and diabetes, for seven or eight years. “I don’t even know how she managed,” Dr. Wagner said. After he died at 85, “it didn’t take her long to slide right into dementia. It’s as if she put it off while she had responsibility for him. There are a lot of mysteries.”

There is no great mystery about the kinds of policies and programs that could better sustain caregivers. Ms. Hunt rattled off several, including regular respite care, home aides covered by Medicare, tax credits for family caregivers and more subsidized adult day programs. When asked if she foresaw more government support for such efforts, she laughed. Other Western countries do a better job, she said.

Yet people like Alvin Vissers, 75, still shoulder the role. He retired from his job as a construction project manager near Brevard, N.C., two years ago to help his wife, Ronda, who is also 75 and in the later stages of Alzheimer’s disease.

Mrs. Vissers, a nurse, can no longer speak much and needs help with nearly everything — bathing, dressing, eating. Without constant monitoring, she may wander outside. She sometimes calls her husband of 54 years “honey,” but “I don’t think she realizes our relationship anymore,” Mr. Vissers says.

Spouses can be reluctant to seek help, even if they can afford it. Who else could possibly be as sensitive and steadfast as the partner who’s lived with this person for decades?

But Mr. Vissers, in generally good health despite elevated blood pressure, began having chest pains at night (from reflux disease, it turned out). Another caregiving husband he knew from church had been hospitalized with heart failure, sending his dependent wife to a nursing facility.

“I won’t be any good to Ronda if I give her all this care and she outlives me,” Mr. Vissers said he realized. “The stress of caring for her 100 percent was too much.”

Last year, therefore, Mr. Vissers began driving his wife to an adult day program three days a week. “It worked out so well we went to five days,” he said. The couple’s youngest daughter, who had moved into an apartment in their home with her own daughter, makes dinner most nights. Mr. Vissers can find time to exercise, volunteer and attend caregiver support group meetings.

One day, he knows, his wife may become too immobile for a day program. He may need to hire home care or, eventually, find a nursing home.

But not yet. “I told her when this started, ‘Sweetheart, you’ve cared for me for 50 years; I guess it’s my turn,’ ” he recalled. “Now, I’m finding out what those words mean.”

A version of this article appears in print on July 7, 2015